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The Life of Mrs. Nettie K. Herman

Nettie K. (Heffner) Herman, of Kutztown, passed away peacefully on Saturday, May 23, 2020 in Kutztown Manor, Inc., where she was a resident for just over a year. She was the loving wife of Harry H. Herman, Jr.

Born in Rockland Township, Nettie was the youngest daughter of the late Samuel R. and Ellen E. (Kline) Heffner and lived a very humble life growing up during The Great Depression. Her family lived in Rockland Township, Lyons, Kirbyville and Kutztown, and she attended Neff’s Schoolhouse in Kutztown and Kutztown Area High School. She met her husband, Harry, at C.J Hummel’s Dance Hall in Lenhartsville, and later married on September 1, 1956 in the St. John’s Lutheran Church Parsonage on Main Street in Kutztown by Rev. Bittner. They continued to be faithful members of St. John’s Evangelical Lutheran Church for many years.

Nettie, along with her husband, Harry, owned and operated Herman's Drive-In in Topton from 1961 until they sold the business in 1995. She continued to work at Herman's for another 17 years, last working during the 2012 season. Throughout her 50 years at Herman’s, Nettie enjoyed seeing and talking with all the patrons who stopped by year after year, generation after generation.

She was a devoted wife, loving mother and proud grandmother and great-grandmother, whose utmost priority was spending time with her family. Nettie could often be found supporting and attending her grandsons’ school, music and sporting events, as she was their #1 fan. She loved baking her famous cakes, cookies and other desserts for her family, friends and for local fundraisers and civic organization events. Nettie was also an avid gardener, who was very proud of her flowerbeds and her home. She enjoyed traveling with her husband Harry, going out to eat, shopping, especially at Boscovs, and socializing at Renninger’s Farmer’s Market on a Saturday morning.

Nettie’s caring and friendly personality will certainly be missed by her family and friends. Her family would like to thank all of you for your concern over the last several years while she was battling dementia, and especially to the staff at Kutztown Manor for the excellent care they provided.

In addition to her husband of 63 years, Harry, Nettie is survived by her two daughters, Lisa A. (Herman), wife of Terry G. Bollinger, Topton, and Julie A. (Herman), wife of Brian K. Rabenold, Kutztown; three grandsons, Jonathan M., husband of Meghan N. (Smith) Quier, Kutztown, Adam B., husband of Kirstin L. (Luckenbill) Rabenold, Mohrsville, and Brock A. Rabenold, Kutztown; two great-grandchildren, Greyson Z. and Addyson C. Quier; and many nieces, nephews and their families.

In addition to her parents, Nettie was predeceased by her 11 siblings, Howard S. Heffner, Cora M. Fitzgerald, Alma M. Heffner, Anna M. Reppert, Jeremiah K. Heffner, Rebecca K. Heffner, Mary K. Adam, Robert K. Heffner, Earl K. Heffner, Pearl K. Heffner, and Harold K. Heffner, who passed away one week prior.

A joint memorial service to celebrate and honor both Harry and Nettie will be held on Saturday, May 8, 2021 at 11:00 a.m. in Ludwick Funeral Homes, Inc., 333 Greenwich Street, Kutztown, PA with their Pastor and former employee, Reverend Mary Ann Hamm officiating. Relatives and friends are invited to a visitation from 9:00 to 10:45 a.m. in the funeral home. Burial will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions be made in Nettie's memory to Saint John's Evangelical Lutheran Church, 201 East Main Street, Kutztown, PA 19530.

Ludwick Funeral Homes, Inc., Kutztown, is in charge of arrangements. Memories and condolences may be shared at www.Ludwickfh.com.

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2020.05.24
Ice cream

Loved going to Hermans for some wonderful ice cream served by Nettie, always with a big smile and a friendly hello how are you. She was always a sweet and gracious lady. She touched so many hearts with her kindness. She will be sadly missed by all who knew her. My sincere, heartfelt sympathy to the family. 

Posted by LEATRICE M on 05/24/2020

2020.05.24
Summers

So very sorry to hear this! My prayers go out to the entire family and a heartfelt thank you for numerous summers of enjoyment. I worked a short period for the Hermans as well-so many memories of the nicest people you will ever met and the food-none elsewhere! May God comfort you all during this time. 

Posted by Anna S on 05/24/2020

2020.05.24
So Sweet

She always greeted you with a smile. Such a wonderful woman that was Topton icon.. Thank you for always looking out for us.. God Bless

Posted by Keith A on 05/24/2020

2020.05.25
Always a smile

Always a smile as she handed you your hot dog or ice cream cone. Will miss seeing Harry and Nettie walking together holding hands in Kutztown. Many Hugs to all!

Posted by Betty A on 05/25/2020

2020.05.31
Rest in peace

Caring and giving mother, to my friend. Sending condolences to the entire family. RIP Nettie. Dawn Berk.

Posted by Dawn B on 05/31/2020

2020.06.02
Nettie and Ruth

We met Nettie when she became our mom's roommate at the Kutztown Manor.  We shared many meals with Harry, Lisa, Julie, and the "two little ladies!"  Sharing these times together really helped to make our difficult situations somewhat easier.  Our heartfelt condolences to you all.

Sally and Marianne - Ruth's daughters

 

Posted by Marianne G on 06/02/2020